Well, we had a really fun Christmas. Tradition here is that on Christmas Eve everyone pops firecrackers (well, they do that all the time anyway…) and stay up until midnight to eat a meal. Last year David made it until the meal, but this year he was home by 10:30. I didn’t go (not much of a firecracker person). Christmas day we had a special service for our ladies class (normally we meet on Tuesday, not Monday, but more people had off on Monday). For the month of December we’ve all had secret sisters and have been exchanging small gifts, like candy or cookies. On Christmas we bought a bigger gift and we got to meet our secret sister. We also played games. We sack raced. That was fun/scary since they were hopping in sacks on a waxed tile floor! We also played a game called bee/wasp. Both words start with an “a” in Spanish, so Carolina said “Aaaaaa” and then the word and the group she called had to go catch someone from the other group or free someone caught from their group. I won with three catches!! Another fun game was where we all had memory verses hung on our necks. Throughout the time, we couldn’t cross our legs or arms or touch our hair, or someone could rob our verse. But, if you could say your verse, they couldn’t take it. Whoever had the most won. We also had a pot luck.

Sack Race: I should have had the camera on “Action”
There were 40 women who attended
Before we started playing, I got to bring the lesson. I talked about constructing our lives well. To open, we talked about how we wouldn’t feel safe in a building built without iron or cement to hold the rocks together, or with banana leaves instead of a metal roof. We also wouldn’t think that once our building was built, we never have to do anything - no painting, no cleaning, nothing. Finally, we wouldn’t never take paint remover and throw it all over the building, or break chairs or windows. We know that we have to build a building well, maintain it, and not do things that will destroy it. Even more so when it is the building where the children of God gather. But, do we apply this to our life as Christians? We talked about these three points in our spiritual life, our physical life and in our emotional life.
Spiritual Life - We all started our spiritual life well constructed. We were born without sin, pure and clean (Matt. 18:3-4). But, we all sinned and destroyed our construction (Romans 3:23). So when we talk here, it’s about reconstructing. Constructing Well: To reconstruct our spiritual life, we have to participate in the death of Jesus, because His blood cleans our consciences (Hebrews 9:14). How do we participate in the death of Christ? Romans 6:2-7. When we build well, when we make a decision to follow Christ, to submit to God (James 4:7) and to repent of our sins, we are readying ourselves to have success in our spiritual life. But, when we make the decision to follow Christ without considering the consequences, without realizing the sacrifices, y without eliminating our pride so we can submit wholly and completely to God, we are preparing ourselves to fail in our spiritual life (Luke 14:26-30). Maintaining: To maintain, we need to prepare ourselves for the temptations of Satan who will use our family, friends, and other Christians. How? Studying the Word of God (Ephesians 5:10), Praying and asking help from God (Hebrews 4:16), practicing, applying and changing (Hebrews 5:14, 1 Pet 1:13, 1 Tim 4:7). Don’t Destroy: We destroy our spiritual life when we return to our old life, a life full of sin, re-crucifying Christ (Heb 10:26, Luke 9:62, Heb 6:4-6).
Physical Life- Our body is the temple of God. What is the temple? It’s where God dwells (1 Cor. 6:19-20). There are times when we take care of and respect our building more than our bodies. We confuse where God lives - in us, not in our building. Build well: If we haven’t been taking care of our bodies, we need a plan to get healthy first. This is building well. We might have to eat less than normal to lose weight, or remove something from our diet until we are healthy. We might have to exercise more than normal until we are healthy. Even if we are eating well, if we aren’t exercising, we aren’t healthy. Maintain: We are never going to wake up one day and say that we are healthy and there’s nothing else to do. We always have to eat (well), exercise and take care of our hair, teeth, etc. I heard a story that helped me realize how we need to take care of ourselves: If you have kids, you can use them for your example. If not, think that you woke up one morning to find a baby on your doorstep with a note asking you to care for it. How many of you, if you were tired would say “Well, I’m too tired to feed the baby this afternoon. He’ll have to wait until the morning”? Or “Ah, there’s just too much for me to do today, I don’t have time to bathe the baby”? Or “I’m going to brush his teeth tomorrow; I just don’t want to do it today”? Or “I know the baby is thirsty, but I’ll give hims some water later”? I would hope that none of us! Now, who takes care of us? Who feeds us, gives us water, bathes us, and brushes our teeth? We do! God gave us this body, and it is our responsibility to take care of it every moment. How? Eat well - a variety of foods to get all vitamins. Exercise, bathe, brush our teeth, fix our hair and wear appropriate clothes. Don’t Destroy: Drinking and smoking. I think we all know these things aren’t good for us, and can cause sicknesses. But do we also know that too much of certain foods can cause sicknesses. Fat, salt, sugar, caffeine, etc, etc. These things, in excess, can cause sicknesses like diabetes, high blood pressure and cavities. Let’s not destroy the temple of God!
Emotional Life - I’m talking about how we like to feel, and our relationships with others. If everything is good in life, do we feel joyful, or bored? Do we try to fix problems as quickly as possible, or do we look for problems and don’t try to fix them so that we can have something to complain about? Do we win friends by an ear ready to listen, or by gossiping or talking bad about others? This is what I’m talking about here. Construct Well: We should build our relationships and emotions with God as our guide. How should we feel? Joyful (1 Peter 1:8), Thankful (Col. 2:7), Content/not complaining (1 Tim 6:8), James 3:17 lists others. We should meditate and practice these things to have a good construction, because in the moment of temptation, who has the self control to act well without the knowledge of right/wrong or the time to study how we should react. We need a foundation first to fight against Satan. Maintain: We temptation comes, we need a plan to conquer it. This is how we maintain our emotional life. Examples: Gossiping - When someone comes to your house and starts to gossip with you, how will you respond? 1 - This sounds like gossip and I don’t want to participate. 2 - Is what you’re going to say good or bad? I don’t want to listen to the bad (being a negative person is also an unhealthy emotion). 3 - If you have a problem with ___, you should talk to them about it. God doesn’t give me the freedom to listen to this story. Negative thinking - If a friend or you personally have a problem with always thinking negatively, about others for example, what can you do? 1 - Work to have compassion and try to understand how the person who offended you could have done what they did. Is that their personal area of weakness? Were they extra busy and not thinking? Are we reading too much into it? 2 - Look for the good in the person you’re feeling negative about. 3 - Work to fix them problem with that person. If you ask why they did something, rather than shouting accusations, you might find out you just misunderstood or were being selfish in your thinking. Don’t Destroy: When we like problems, gossip and other relational/emotional sins, we are destroying the emotions we should have. If I want a friend, and I win them over by talking bad about their “enemy” I’m delighting in the results of my sin. If I like to make problems grow by my gossip so that I have something to do/talk about, I’m delighting in an emotion created by sin (Prov. 26:20). If I’m always negative and look for bad so that I can complain, I’m delighting in an emotion created by sin (Prov. 17:22). These things destroy our emotional life. Example: On a call in show where two women help people with housecleaning and life arrangement, a woman called in asking how she could get her family to help her out more around the house. She wasn’t too happy when the women responded, “You can’t. You want the house clean; they don’t care; it’s up to you to do it.” The woman went on to say that she had a 16 yr old daughter who did help out, in fact, she made dinner every night for her family! What was this woman complaining about!?! Her daughter didn’t do the dishes after dinner! The two hosts stopped her and said, “Wait a minute! You have a 16 yr old daughter who is willing to make dinner every night, and you’re complaining she doesn’t do the dishes too!?!” The lady still didn’t get it. She kept trying to complain and the hosts kept shutting her down. This woman obviously was delighting in her negativity and complaining. She was delighting in her unhealthy emotion and destroying her healthy emotions of thankfulness and joy.